Jesus did not want cowards and wishy-washy followers. He did not want people who were sprouted of the seed that landed in the rocky soil, the road or among the weeds. He wants those who are of the good soil. Jesus said a lot of challenging things that caused a lot of those who were witnesses to and partakers in His ministry and miracles.
These megachurch preachers are teaching a watered-down message somewhat related to the bible, like a distant cousin, forty times removed. They are sprinkling their messages with bible verses and Christian lingo so it appears to be truly from God but it is far from what the bible teaches, and very far from God.
Throughout the gospels Jesus taught about His Father. He taught about how the way we live is completely opposed to His Father, in that we fail to recognize and understand His sovereignty over external things and internal things. He taught His Father was approachable but not until our sin was dealt with, that we were washed clean so that we can to enter into His throne room.
The Father is concerned with our daily physical needs. He cares for the birds of the air and the beasts of the field, and the flowers that bloom in their season. He cares to send rain in the proper time for the harvest. How much more does He care for us since we are made in His image?
But He was infinitely more concerned about our internal (spiritual) needs. Jesus did not come primarily to teach about the Father and to train His disciples for the ministry after He had fulfilled the purpose of His being born. He was born to die for the sins of the world and to bring life to that that was dead.
If we are to be those who daily pick up our cross and follow Jesus then we are to accept all of His teachings. We are to accept the teachings that tell us that the Father cares for us more than the any other part of His creation. We are to accept Jesus’ teaching that we dead in our sins and we need to be made righteous before the Father or Hell is where we are destined to spend eternity.
We are also to accept His claims about Himself. We are to accept His claims to be the only Son of the Living God, that He was the manna in the wilderness for the nation of Israel, and that He is the only way into Heaven. No one can get to the Father except through Him. Through Him means through the blood He shed as the Passover Lamb for our sins, our propitiation as our High Priest, and His advocacy on our behalf as He sits at the right hand of His, and our, Heavenly Father.
In short, we are to believe what is easy to believe and also what is difficult believe, about what Jesus teaches about us and about Himself.